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Are You Ready To Get Married?

Take this short private assessment to find out if you're ready to get married or not! It can be a difficult decision to make by yourself, so this test is here to help you in making that decision.

DISCLAIMER: Failing this test does not mean you are not allowed to get married and passing does not mean you will have a perfect marriage, this quiz is a short evaluation on what we believe are the very basic requirements necessary for you to get married and have a successful marriage!

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Finance 💰

This section will ask you questions regarding finance in a relationship.

Question 2 of 31

Do you work?

A

Yes

B

No

C

I'm a sister

Question 3 of 31

Can you afford to pay rent and bills?

A

Yes

B

I'm not really there yet ..

C

I'm a sister, so I don't have to pay rent and bills :)

Question 4 of 31

Is money the most important thing in a relationship?

A

If me or my partner fall into financial hardship it will affect our relationship negatively

B

Money is important for a family and household to function, but it is not the most important thing

C

Money isn't important at all and holds no significance in the function of a family or household

D

Money should be held in the hand and not in the heart!

Question 5 of 31

Do you have a financial plan?

A

I am looking to get married with no financial plan

B

I have a plan and I am working towards it

C

I have a plan but I am very lazy

D

I am a sister and will entrust my Husband with finances

Travel 🛫

This section will ask you questions regarding travel in a relationship.

Question 7 of 31

Can a Woman travel abroad without her Mahram?

A

Yes, she can go wherever she wants and noone has the right to stop her from doing what she loves

B

No, she has to travel abroad with her Mahram

C

She needs a mahram to travel abroad UNLESS she is going to disney land

Question 8 of 31

Would you consult your partner before making a decision on leaving the country?

A

My partner should not be consulted and will not affect my decision in leaving the country

B

When planning to leave the country I should always consult my Husband/Wife

Expectations 👍/👎

This section will ask you questions regarding expectations in a relationship.

Question 10 of 31

If your partner does not meet your expectations, how would you react?

A

I will get very angry and be rude towards my partner

B

I will get upset and boycott them

C

I will suffer in silence

D

I will speak to them about it and try to communicate effectively

E

Abit of everything

Question 11 of 31

Would you speak to your potential partner about your expectations before marriage?

A

Yes, it isn't fair to expect something without them knowing about it

B

I won't speak to them about it, but I will send them clues and mixed signals

C

I will hide my expectations as I don't want to overburden them

D

I'll just bring it up after we get married

Question 12 of 31

Do you expect your partner to do everything in the relationship?

A

Yes, ofcourse!

B

My wife MUST clean and cook and I will NEVER help her with anything as I am the provider!

C

My husband needs to be a MAN, I won't help him with anything he asks me to help him with

D

I won't expect my partner to do everything in the relationship ❤️

Conflict and Compatibility 😡

This section will ask you questions regarding Conflict and Compatibility in a relationship.

Question 14 of 31

What would you do when you face conflict for the first time with your partner?

A

I will hit my partner or destroy something they like

B

Stay calm and communicate with my partner

C

Shouting and screaming is what will really happen

D

I have trouble controlling myself

Question 15 of 31

How do you react when you become angry?

A

I build up hate and grudge but I won't shout or scream alhamdulillah

B

I stay quite and lock myself in my room (avoid interaction)

C

I try to calm myself down (for e.g. by sitting down or drinking water)

D

Everytime I have a different aggression in my reaction

E

I still have anger issues from time to time

Question 16 of 31

If you and your partner keep having conflicts, are you willing to compromise on what you want?

A

No, they need to compromise because they were in the wrong

B

I will only compromise if they compromise first (it's only fair)

C

I'll try my best to compromise regardless of who is right or wrong

Rights of your spouse 📜

This section will ask you questions regarding the Rights of your spouse in a relationship.

Question 18 of 31

What does the Husband have to provide for his Wife?

A

Shelter, food, clothes, security and general provision

B

The same thing she provides him, they should split up their work and responsibilities equally

C

JustEAT or UberEATS atleast once every week

Question 19 of 31

Should the Wife cook food for her family (Husband)?

A

She should take this responsibility for her family

B

Only if the Husband cooks aswell!

C

This question is sexist

Question 20 of 31

Can the Man force the Woman to reduce the Mahr (dowry) she requests?

A

No, it's her right to choose whatever amount she wants and he cannot force her to change it!

B

He can only do this IF she requests something ridiculous like 50K

C

Yes, he can do this if he is the Imam of the local Masjid

Question 21 of 31

Can the Wife leave the house without her Husband’s permission?

A

Yes, ofcourse!

B

She can only leave without permission before Maghrib (sunset)

C

The husband needs to give his wife permission

Question 22 of 31

Can the Wife bring people to the House without her Husband’s permission?

A

She can bring all her friends and family at anytime she wants, without asking her Husband at all!

B

No, she needs to ask her Husband before letting people into the house

Question 23 of 31

Are you allowed to physically/emotionally hurt your partner?

A

Only if they call you names for NO REASON

B

Yes, with reasonable force

C

No, the husband or wife can not harm eachother

Question 24 of 31

Does Husband and Wife have to make themselves available to each other for intimate relations?

A

Yes, they entered into a marital contract and this is a right for both of them

B

It's the Wife's choice and the Husband has no say in this!

C

It's only upto the Husband and the wife has no say at all!

Religious Commitment 🤲

This section will ask you questions regarding Religious Commitment in a relationship.

Question 26 of 31

What does Laa ilaaha ilaa Allah mean?

A

There is no God except God

B

There is only 1 Prophet

C

There is no diety worthy of worship in Truth except Allah

D

Allah sent Muhammad as a Prophet

Question 27 of 31

Do you pray 5 times a day?

A

Yes, every day!

B

I try to, but I am lazy sometimes

C

I write letters or pray in my own way

D

I can't remember the last time I prayed

Question 28 of 31

Are you seeking Islamic Knowledge according to the Quran and Sunnah (with the understanding of the Salaf)?

A

I haven't started to study my religion yet

B

To be honest, I don't even know who the Salaf are..

C

Yes, I seek knowledge of the Quran and Sunnah with the understanding of the companions of the prophet and the 2 generations after them.

D

I don't seek any Islamic knowledge

Question 29 of 31

What would you go back to if there is a problem between you and your partner?

A

My auntie

B

My mother knows how to solve all these issues

C

See what Islam says about our issue and try to resolve it according to the Qur'an and Sunnah

D

My drawing board

Question 30 of 31

Do you listen to Music?

A

All the time!

B

Sometimes, but I listen to the Qur'an aswell

C

Never

Question 31 of 31

Do you smoke, drink alcohol or gamble?

A

Only when i'm around my friends who do it

B

Atleast once a week

C

I don't do any of the above, but I may be taking something else that I shouldn't be..

D

Never

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